By Billy Atwell
The National Organization for Marriage is traveling across the country promoting traditional marriage as being a union between one man and one woman. This 23-city tour is traveling by bus and is holding rallies at the same time as a California judge determines whether or not a state amendment defining marriage as between one man and one woman is constitutional.
For fans of the Constitution, like myself, traditional marriage is a no-brainer. But groups like Freedom to Marry don’t get it. In a copy-cat move, this group is also traveling around the country and holding rallies to combat NOM and is using the exact same slogan, “Summer for Marriage.” That’s right—Freedom to Marry titled their campaign the same as that of NOM. Freedom to Marry is carrying the slogan “Love + Commitment= Marriage.”
This slogan is logically empty. As Chuck Colson pointed out in one of his
recent Two-Minute Warning video commentaries, in which he dismantled Hillary Clinton’s strawman claim to “freedom of worship,” he says that we do not have the freedom to love or marry whomever we wish. If this were true then pedophiles or polygamists would be free to do as they wish, Colson points out. But we know that those cases are inherently wrong because they defy the natural order and hurt society by offering children and the couple a shell of what God intends.
The question I would love to hear groups like Freedom to Marry address is, why should we allow gay marriage but not polygamy or consensual marriage between an adult and a minor? Proponents of traditional marriage frequently question where this slippery slope of marriage politics could lead, once we start loosening the definition of marriage. Keeping in mind the slogan “Love + Commitment= Marriage”, isn’t a seven-year-old girl able to love just as much as a fifty-year-old man? So if love and commitment are the only pre-requisites for marriage, than the slippery slope argument is not only valid, it’s true!
These weak slogans and arguments sometimes confuse the public about gay marriage, because nobody wants to be the bad-guy and tell somebody what they can’t do. But when we are dealing with something that distorts the natural order, we must be on the offensive, as NOM is.
Damon Ownes, spokesman for NOM, said, “None of us has the power or the right to define something none of us created.” This is an excellent point. The institution of marriage is a natural right, which means that is pre-political, and therefore cannot be redefined by government any more than government could redefine the parent-child relationship.
Though this institution was created by God in the very beginning, dissenters are still trying to push for a type of “newspeak,” like that of George Orwell’s 1984, by changing the way we view our identity by changing the definition of the words we use. Marriage is what it is and cannot be changed to merely satisfy a small reactionary force.
“We’re now seeing a colorful movement attempting to ground the law into a lie about human nature,” said NOM chairman Maggie Gallagher to CitizenLink. “Two men in a union do not equal a marriage.” In fact, if two men or two women did equal marriage, and if everyone were to buy into this lie, than humanity would cease to exist. When the arguments are so faulty, baseless, and contingent on newspeak, it makes me wonder how they even carry on.
The gay agenda’s newspeak tactics are not only confusing since they try to change words and the intent of institutions like marriage, but are dangerous for a society already crumbling under the weight of moral and ethical lacking, and a need for strong families as the solution.
In this video about the campaign you can see radical, pro-gay protestors threaten to kidnap children, harass a mother nursing her child, storm the podium, and out-shout the speakers (ah, the voice of tolerance and civil discord):
(Interested in participating in the campaign? CLICK HERE to see where the next stops will be. The campaign will end in Washington, DC on August 15)
Billy Atwell contributes to Catholic Online and BreakPoint, and is a blogger for The Point. From the perspective of a two-time cancer survivor he encourages those afflicted with pain and struggling with faith. You can find all of his writings at For the Greater Glory.